Some folks say running is like a drug, and I think that’s true. I’m addicted, and I’m going through withdrawals, and I’m miserable. I hate rehab!
Today’s Non-Workout
I think this might be the part where I start to get frustrated. I love to run. It’s a part of me. And I’ve been way out of routine for about three months. I haven’t run since last Saturday. I have physical therapy today for my ankle and I’m guessing I still won’t know when I’ll get to run again. The swelling feels like it’s going down, but it’s not there yet and I need to focus on next year, not next week. Plus, even if I could run, I have way too much work to do right now.
I feel like I’m in some kind of twilight zone, where I’m not myself. But I’ll get there. I know I will.
Talkin’ Jack
In case this is your first time here, or if you’ve never been to the rest of the site, I’m planning on running 60 marathons next year to raise awareness for a charity called Train 4 Autism. My son, Jack, is severely autistic and I want to do something to make a difference in his honor. In this spot in each blog, I’ll talk about Jack a little bit.
Yesterday, Jack continued to have fun at summer camp. Today is the last day. His therapy session was a little earlier in the day (usually, it’s from 4-6:30), so he got to play with his brother and sister last night. We all made a mess with play-doh, which is definitely better than therapy! He also had fun playing with a musical tiger that his siblings were dancing to. He’d stop the music, and they’d stop dancing. Then he’d start the music and they’d start dancing. He understood the cause and effect and had a blast, laughing up a storm.
Ice Cream Update
I upped the streak early yesterday. I went to Costco for lunch, grabbing a polish sausage and then a chocolate/vanilla frozen yogurt swirl. Yeah, I had my dirty work done before 2 p.m. I’m now at 37 consecutive days eating ice cream or frozen yogurt. Maybe I’ll wear a Red Sox cap if I make it 20 more days and surpass Joe DiMaggio.
Jogging For Jayden!
When I started thinking about using my running for charity, I didn’t know what I wanted to do, but I wanted to do something to help make a difference. I wasn’t staying focused enough on pushing myself and I felt like I needed to do something difference. I knew it would have something to do with autism, but I didn’t know what. I started thinking of various ideas, and then changing those ideas, and then finalizing those ideas. Operation Jack is what I came up with.
I ran numbers and scenarios in my head. I have a few targets and goals and I try to estimate participation and guess fundraising efforts. I follow the traffic and growth on the site and with the blog and try to figure out what to do to keep that rolling. And then, on days like yesterday, I get a bucket full of cold water splashed across my as I realize that behind the numbers, there are real people involved.
Now don’t get me wrong — I’ve talked with a lot of you this month and I really enjoy that. Washington, Nevada, Maryland, Ohio, Michigan, Texas … I’ll stop naming states because I could go on and on, and you know who you are and I really appreciate your support. Everything that’s happening is totally surreal and I truly, truly appreciate everybody who is excited about what I’m trying to do, regardless of whether or not we’ve met in person.
But yesterday, I saw Jogging 4 Jayden, and it totally blew my mind.
Jayden is the son of Dennis and Jacqui Barr, good friends of my brother. I’ve known Dennis for the better part of 15 years — we’re both Phi Delts (yeah, had to get a shout-out in there — he’s Nevada Beta, I’m Kansas Gamma). Anyways, little Jayden, his 3 1/2 year son who was born four days before my daughter Ava, is on the spectrum. For those of you who don’t know what “on the spectrum” means, be grateful. When you’re on the spectrum, like Jayden, you have autism, or at least display autistic tendencies. Jacqui was inspired by me when she saw my story about my unlikely path into marathoning and my passion to use it to make a difference.
Jacqui wants to do something in Jayden’s honor, so she started exercising. She signed on with Operation Jack (remember, there are no fundraising minimums and you can run a shorter race, not just a full marathon) and and has been getting advice from our coaches. She’s going to run a marathon for Jayden next December at Rock N Roll Las Vegas. I don’t know for certain that she’s made the commitment to go the full distance, but I’m using this space to tell her that she is!
Anyways, the goal of Operation Jack is participation and raising awareness of Train 4 Autism.
Apparently, my goal is working, because thanks to Jacqui’s efforts (and subsequently, the efforts of her sisters Denise and Aimee, who I have decided will also be running Las Vegas in December 2010), there are a whole lot of people out there all over the country who weren’t aware of Train 4 Autism who are now. Aimee raised $250 last night in Kentucky!
Realistically, it’s going to be easier to get people to jump on the bandwagon once I start running marathons next year. But this is the first indicator that I’m reaching people, that Jack is going to make a difference in the world. I dropped Jacqui a line and told her I was amazed. I was pretty speechless, a rarity for me.
In part, she told me, “You and Jack have inspired our entire family. … We are in this together my friend. … Let’s keep the ideas flowing n raise as much money as possible!”
I wish I could write a few sentences to explain how cool that was to read. I’m just a guy who gets up super-early every day and goes out for a run (or works when he has a sprained ankle!), goes through the daily routine, tries to take care of his kids and hangs out with his wife. I exist in my nice, quiet little world, going through my daily routine, as does Jack. To see something like that email, or the enthusiasm Jayden’s mom and aunts have, gives me hope that Operation Jack will accomplish what I hope it will.
Jacqui’s sister Denise told me the following yesterday: “Dude, you have inspired my whole family! My little sister saw what Jacqui was doing and said – I GOTTA DO THIS TOO! … THANK YOU so much for what you are doing… the fact that you have made a commitment to better yourself and in doing so you help your son, it’s huge. I KNOW you will succeed in achieving your goal and I know plenty of people will be supporting you along the way.”
I need a Jacqui, Denise and Aimee in every city I’m going to, and even those I’m not. Thank you so much, ladies, for stepping up and working to make a difference. And selfishly, thanks for helping Jack make an impact on this world. He’s thrashing the playroom right now and getting people to raise money for charity. How awesome is that?
Video of the Day
I eat ice cream every day. And I eat In-N-Out every week. If you don’t know what In-N-Out is, you’ve never been anywhere near California. And for the record, In-N-Out makes the best cheeseburger in the world. Today for lunch, I’ll have a double-double animal style, add mustard, add regular onions.
Here’s a classic In-N-Out commercial from 1981. It all looks the same today. The quality hasn’t changed!
TGIF!
That means that tomorrow I get to work! But hopefully the rest of you will get some time off to enjoy yourself. Have a great day and a great weekend. If you want to give Operation Jack a gift, let it be the gift of a referral! PLEASE send one new person here between now and Monday, and if you’re not following on Twitter or Facebook, please do so!