It’s so cliché to say that behind every great man is a woman. But I won’t say that for two reasons. One, I’m going to talk about me and my wife and I’m not going to call myself a great man. And two, I prefer to use the word “beside”.
For those of you new here, I’m a father of three and a marathon runner. My middle child, 6-year-old Jack, is severely autistic, and I decided I wanted to try to make a difference in his honor. So, my crazy idea is to run 60 marathons this year to try to raise money and awareness for a charity I’m a part of called Train 4 Autism. I named this Operation Jack and I’m hoping people will jump on the train when it comes to town. I started brainstorming in 2008 and launched it January 1 in Kingwood, Texas. One down, 59 to go.
And for those of you new here, I tend to occasionally use this space to profess my love and appreciation for my bride Tiffany. Today is one of those occasional days.
This Operation Jack thing wears us down. It’s a ton of work, but we’re seeing results and we’re optimistic this is going to have a wonderful impact. It’s exhausting, though, and we’re only in the second week. Tiff feels like she’s on the sideline, but I know this would absolutely not be possible without her. WE are doing Operation Jack. Not just me. I have my role, but she is the glue that holds five lives together.
The latest example was obvious to me last night. I’ve been spending a lot of time lately with a newspaper that’s planning on running a very nice story about Operation Jack. This will hopefully do a great job spreading the word and should be a big positive for what we’re trying to accomplish. She provided a huge role in helping me work with them to get this done.
Last night, I spent more than two hours with the photographer, taking some pictures and doing an interview on video. While I was doing this, she was taking care of the kids. That might not sound like a lot, but it involved driving Benjamin around, bathing Jack and Ava, helping calm Jack when he had a meltdown, playing with the kids and keeping them quiet for us, putting them to sleep, etc.
This morning, I came in 30 minutes late from my run because I was working with the photographer again. I had about 10 minutes to get ready and out the door to get Jack to school on time. She had the kids all squared away, she had breakfast and coffee and lunch ready for me, and she didn’t complain at all. Basically, she provided amazing support and kept everything running without skipping a beat. I didn’t like coming in so late, but I knew she’d have everything under control.
It might sound like such typical tasks, but it was chaos that was well managed and it made a big difference in allowing me to work with the photographer, which is what Operation Jack needd. It’s a perfect example of how she has a critical role in this. She’ll say it’s no big deal, because that what she’s supposed to do, but I know that as a team, we have a ton of work to do and we get it done together.
She selflessly runs herself into the ground to support everything we’re doing as a family. So if you support what Operation Jack is trying to accomplish, just know that it would not be possible without her and she’s a huge part of this. That’s why I prefer to use the word “beside” instead of “behind”. She truly is beside me and we’re getting this done together.
Crazy Weekend, Coming Right Up!
I have a double this weekend, running Jackson, Miss. on Saturday, then Mobile, Ala. the next day. There’s going to be a lot of commotion involved with this one and I don’t know how I’m going to crawl out of bed on Monday morning. But I will. And I’m going to post a blog that’s a play-by-play of what it was like to live in my nutty world for three days.
If you’re curious to see how I run on Saturday and Sunday, check back because I’ll post race reports here.
Beyond that, have a good weekend, everybody! Thanks for coming by and supporting Operation Jack!